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Bechukotai

Inspired by the teachings of Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks

The Summary

At the centre of the Mosaic books is Sefer Vayikra. At the centre of Vayikra is the “holiness code” (chapter 19) with its call: “You shall be holy because I, the Lord your God, am holy.” And at its centre is a brief paragraph, the high point of the Torah:

Do not hate your brother in your heart.
Admonish your fellow and do not bear guilt on his account. Do not take revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbour as yourself. I am the Lord.

What does it mean, to “admonish your fellow”? Rambam and Ramban give two interpretations. One is social: if we see someone doing wrong, we must try to help them change. We cannot say, “That’s between them and God” for we know that “all of Bnei Israel are responsible for one another.”

But both agree that the simpler meaning is interpersonal. If someone hurts you, do not hate them in silence. Speak to them. Say: “Why did you do this to me?” Give them the chance to explain, apologise, and allow yourself to forgive.

This teaches something deep about the psychology of relationships. Judaism has sometimes been accused of focusing on justice rather than love. This is untrue. The Torah commands love, but it also understands how hard that can be. When someone hurts us, we feel pain and anger. The question is what we do next.

The Torah’s answer is simple but powerful: Speak. Converse. Challenge. Remonstrate. It may be that we misunderstood. Or it may be that the other person was wrong but will now regret it. Either way, talking is the best way of repairing a relationship. As Judaism teaches us time and again, speech has the power to create, sustain, and mend human relationships.

A powerful example is the story of King David's sons, Avshalom and Amnon. After Amnon harms Tamar, Avshalom says nothing. He appears calm, but his silence hides hatred. Two years later, he takes revenge and has Amnon killed. His silence was not due to forgiveness. Instead, he remained quietly angry, and it festered into a need for action, for revenge. 

Another example appears in the story of Yosef and his brothers. They hated him so much that “they could not speak with him peacefully.” As Rabbi Jonathan Eybeschuetz notes had they spoken, they might have resolved their conflict. The tragedy was their silence. A failure to communicate is often the beginning of revenge.

The inner logic of the Torah’s command this week is this: Love your neighbour as yourself. But not all neighbours are easy to love. Some hurt us. The Torah does not ask us to pretend otherwise. It does, however, forbid us to hate silently. Instead, we must speak honestly about our pain. Through this, misunderstanding can be cleared, or wrongdoing admitted and forgiven.

If we do not speak, resentment grows. Grudges form. Eventually, this can lead to revenge, as it did with Absalom. But if we do speak, there is a chance of healing.

What is so impressive about the Torah is that it sets high ideals while still understanding human nature. It does not expect us to be angels. Instead, it gives us a realistic way to live up to those ideals.

By being honest with one another, talking things through, we may be able to achieve reconciliation – not always, to be sure, but often. How much distress and even bloodshed might be spared if humanity heeded this simple command.

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Questions to Ponder

1. Why is dialectical thinking (holding two different truths in your head or heart at the same time) so difficult?

2. Which truths do you live, and owe loyalty to?

3. How does taking off one day each week change how you view success and worth?


The Torah resolves life's deepest contradictions through time. We cannot be both ambitious and humble at the same moment, but we can be each in its season.

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With Sara Lamm

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The double parsha of Behar-Bechukotai brings Vayikra to a close. Behar begins on Mount Sinai, outlining the laws of the land. Just as we have a Shabbat every seven days, the land has a Shabbat every seven years, the Shmittah year, when the earth rests, and agricultural work stops. 

After seven cycles of seven years comes the Yovel, the Jubilee year. In this fiftieth year, slaves go free, debts are cancelled, and land returns to its original owners. It is a total economic reset. The Torah then outlines the rules for fair business, forbidding overcharging and taking advantage of others. 

The second parsha, Bechukotai, lays out the blessings that will follow if the Jewish people keep the covenant, including peace, prosperity, and God's presence. It also delivers a stark warning about the tragedies that will unfold if they abandon the laws, culminating in exile. Yet it ends with a promise: even in the darkest exile, God will never break His covenant with His people.

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Divide into two teams. The goal of the game is to build the tallest tower out of plastic cups or blocks in two minutes.

For the first minute, standard rules apply: teams compete, guard their pieces, and try to win. When the timer hits one minute, shout “Shmittah!” Then the rules reverse. For the second minute, teams must combine their pieces and work together to build one single, massive tower in the centre of the table.

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Doron Toweg was a successful farmer in central Israel for many years. He was the eggplant supplier (aka aubergine supplier) for Strauss, one of  the largest food companies in Israel and he even featured in their TV adverts driving the tractors. Farming had been his family’s profession for three generations. It was his identity. 

In the summer of 2014, a young man stopped Doron near his fields. The Shmittah year was approaching, and Doron, like most Israeli farmers, had always relied on a legal loophole that allowed the land to keep producing anyway. The young man looked at him and said simply: “Will you give up so easily on a mitzva that we’ve waited two thousand years in exile to be able to perform?” Doron felt these words in his  very soul. He thought to himself, “If I won’t do this mitzva, who will?’” He called Strauss and told them he would not be supplying eggplants that year. They cut ties immediately. 

Doron’s contractors and creditors were furious. He had already planted 20,000 eggplant saplings when he decided to observe Shmittah in full. The plants were thriving, so turned off the water. He even injected poison into the irrigation lines, to ensure the eggplants would fail and not be sold. Doron lost a year of  income. But his wife Ilana supported his decision wholeheartedly. She saw the spiritual and emotional growth that came from keeping this mitzva, and they have ovserved the Shmittah cycle ever since.

“It’s about getting proportions and remembering what’s important in life,” Ilana said. “You stop the rat race and suddenly you have time to focus on the spiritual and time to spend with your family.”

Word spread across Israel. Some people came to the Toweg farm seeking a blessing from a family that had chosen God over profit. Two of the women who received a blessing from Ilana in 2014 actually gave birth to boys on the same day, nine months later. By the following Shmittah year (in 2021) 3,000 people visited the farm for a bracha.

God’s blessing in Bechukotai is not abstract. Sometimes it shows up in a field in central Israel, where eggplants used to grow.

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Cards & Conversation: Chumash Edition is a new resource. On one side of every parsha card, you’ll find an interesting question to think about and discuss, based on the Torah portion. Flip it over, and you’ll discover an idea from Rabbi Sacks that shines a new light on the parsha. 

We are pleased to offer a weekly sample of these cards on these pages, and you can also download the full set, request a pack of your own, and find out more by visiting Cards & Conversation.

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“... if he is not redeemed in any of these ways, he and his children shall be released in the Jubilee year. For it is to Me that the Israelites are servants. They are My servants whom I brought out of the land of Egypt

- Rabbi Sacks’ translation of Vayikra 25:55

Rabbi Sacks on Vayikra 25:55 (in the Koren Sacks Humash) continues his commentary, and offers an answer:

To be free is to refuse to be defined by circumstance. It is about action that is not reaction. Our ability to see and do the unexpected is the link between human creativity and freedom…
The fly [trapped in a bottle] keeps banging its head against the glass in a vain attempt to get out. The more it tries, the more it fails, until it dies in exhaustion. The one thing it forgets to do is to look up.”

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Mitzva of the Week

(Vayikra 25:14)

The Torah commands, “When you sell property to your neighbour, or buy from your neighbour, you shall not wrong one another.” This is the foundation of Jewish economic ethics. It is strictly forbidden to overcharge, to hide a flaw in an item, or to use deceptive marketing. 

In Jewish law, the burden of honesty falls entirely on the seller. There is no concept of “buyer beware.” Business is not a separate, secular zone where anything goes; it is a place where we are expected to treat other people with exact justice and deep integrity.

Needless to say, in a faith as strongly moral as Judaism, alongside the respect for markets went a sharp insistence on the ethics of business. - Rabbi Sacks 

Practically Speaking

This week, consider the way you handle your own transactions, whether you are selling one of your toys at a garage sale, or purchasing something at the local store. Are you being completely transparent? Would you point out a scratch on the item before taking the money? 

The way that we handle our money is the truest test of our morals, and fair dealing is the foundation of community.

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From now on, when you swap or share something, make sure the other person is getting just as good a deal as you are. A fair trade means both people walk away smiling. When you are honest and fair, you build trust with your friends. True friendship is worth more than getting the best deal.

The way you handle your money reveals your true character. So, apply the principle of fair dealing to your own life. If you are selling something, be very honest about its flaws. If you are buying something, do not push the seller to a price that hurts them. Choose honesty over profit. 

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Guiding you through Torah step by step, with insights from the Koren Sacks Humash with translation and commentary by Rabbi Sacks. Each step takes us a little deeper and invites ‘Torah as Conversation,’ just as Rabbi Sacks taught.

Find out more about the Koren Sacks Humash >

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Fair Trades and Deals Made

”וְכִי-תִמְכְּרוּ מִמְכָּר לַעֲמִיתֶךָ, אוֹ קָנֹה מִיַּד עֲמִיתֶךָ--אַל-תּוֹנוּ, אִישׁ אֶת-אָחִיו...“

The Torah is deeply concerned with how we conduct business. It outlaws overcharging and deceptive practices, placing the responsibility for fairness entirely on the seller. Why does Judaism care so much about the details of the marketplace? What happens to a society when people stop trusting the people they buy from? 

Rabbi Sacks shares that a healthy economy requires more than just supply and demand. It requires ethics. Without honesty, fairness, and a commitment to mutual benefit, the market becomes a place of exploitation. Our business practices are a direct reflection of our values.

1. Why do you think it is so tempting to leave our morals behind when money is involved?
2. Have you ever felt cheated in a transaction? How did it affect your trust in others?
3. What is one practical way you can bring a mindset of "mutual gain" into your own life?

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